7th May 2014 @ 14:30
We all have the right to make our own free choices in life. Therefore, you have to respect that all your tips, ideas, suggestions and opinions do not absolutely have a good impact on others, if they have a different approach to life than you.
This is a very important rule in life if you want to be respected by others.
Maybe the people you try to help don’t even bother to listen to what you have to say and then the best thing you can do is to keep your tips and good ideas to yourself.
If other people are not ready to listen to you or others, there is nothing you can do about it at the time. Then you have to either wait and see if they come back when they have tried lots of other things in life without success, or you can decide not to be further involved if you are being contacted again.
The power over the situation is now suddenly on your side, because you have a knowledge that is now valuable to the other person. It is then up to you to sense and decide whether the person is ready to listen to you with an open heart or not and also how much knowledge it is advisable to share with the person in the given situation.
If the person is not fully interested in listening to you and doesn’t feel truly attracted to your energy and charisma, when he or she has a great need for help, you cannot be sure they can adapt to your way of thinking and thereby benefit from your good advise within a short period of time. Therefore, don’t share everything you know with those people the very first time you talk to them.